Mwinamwake mwiniwake wa mphaka amatha kukumbukira nthawi yomwe chiweto chawo chimadumphira pamiyendo yake mosavuta komanso molondola. Kenako, mnzake womangirayo amakhala bwino kwa iye ndikuyamba kumenyetsa moyenera ndi matako ake. Kusuntha kwa nyama kumafanana ndi kutikita minofu kapena kupondereza mwachizolowezi.
Poyamba, kupsyinjika kumapita pang'onopang'ono, ngati kuti nyama ikuyesa momwemo ndikuyesa kuyeza nthawi. Pakapita kanthawi, mayendedwe amatenga mawonekedwe olimba kwambiri, ndipo patapita mphindi, mwiniwake amadzimva kale m'mbali mwa zikhadabo zake, zomwe, monga singano zakuthwa, zimakumba pakhungu. Ndikulosera kuti kutikako kumathera pamenepo, ndikupangitsa kukwiya kwambiri, popeza si aliyense amene ali wokonzeka kupirira izi. Pakadali pano, mphaka amatumizidwa pansi ndikufuula mokwiya, chabwino, amangochotsedwa m'manja. Choseketsa panthawiyi ndikuti paka yokha imawoneka yokwiya komanso kudabwitsidwa kwambiri ndi izi. Ndipo mwiniwake akuyenera kuchotsa tsitsi la mphaka mmaondo ake, ndikupeza madzi ena pazovala zake zomwe zidasiyidwa ndi nyama.
Kodi maziko a njira zosadziwika za "kupondereza mphaka" ndi chiyani?
Mwina sichikhala chinsinsi kwa aliyense kuti amphaka amakhalabe amphaka kwakanthawi m'miyoyo yawo yonse. Choyamba, izi zimalumikizidwa ndi zikhalidwe za moyo wawo, nthawi zina zimafanizidwa ndi "zakumwamba", chifukwa ali ndi mwayi wodabwitsa komanso wosowa kwenikweni wogona popanda zopinga zilizonse, osadandaula ndi zomwe ayenera kudya. Zikatere, mwiniwake amawoneka ngati namwino wonyowa mayi, amasamalira, amapereka malo ogona, chakudya ndi zosangalatsa. Chifukwa chake, nthawi iliyonse munthu atakhala pa sofa, amphaka amapondaponda. Amakhulupirira kuti nyama zimazindikira nthawi yomwe zimasisitidwa ngati kunyambita.
Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mphaka, popanda chifukwa chilichonse, amayamba kupondaponda pamalo amodzi, ngati kuguba. Chodabwitsa ichi chimayambira ubwana wa nyama. Mwa kukanikiza mosinkhasinkha ndi mawondo ake, mphaka amabala kayendedwe kabwino. Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti sikuti akungoyeza nthawi, kumangowonjezera liwiro. Sizimachitika kawirikawiri kuti mutha kupirira kuzunzidwa nthawi zambiri zikhadabo zikalumikizidwa ndikusunthika kumakhala kofala. Zikhadabo zimakakamira pa zovala ndipo zimapweteka kwambiri.
Chifukwa chiyani amphaka amapondaponda ndi mawoko awo?
Ambiri, omwe ali ndi mphaka woyamwitsa kunyumba, awona mobwerezabwereza momwe amphaka amadyetsera, kuyamwa mkaka. Pakadali pano, amapanganso mayendedwe ofanana, kukanikiza nyali pamimba pa amayi. Motero, ana amphaka amathandiza mkaka kutuluka. Zonsezi nthawi zambiri zimatsagana ndi mawu okweza kwambiri.
Mwini akangokhala ndi mwayi wokhala pampando womasuka, mphaka amazindikira kuti ndi mphindi yopumula ndikukonzekera kutenga chiweto chake pachifuwa. Pochita kutikita minofu, mphaka amadzimva wotetezedwa kwathunthu. Ndipo tsopano wakhala kale pansi pa mawondo ake, akukhetsa malovu ndikutsuka m'malo mwake, motero kuwonetsa kuyamika ndi kudalira. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mphaka amadabwa kwambiri akamayendetsedwa, chifukwa akungowonetsa momwe akumvera. Munthu amakhumudwitsa kwambiri nyama akamamuyendetsa kutali ndi iye nthawi ngati imeneyi. Kuyambira ali mwana wamwamuna, palibe amene adayendetsa nyama yosaukayo.
Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti mphaka amayamba kupondaponda asanagone. Kuyenda pazochitika ngati izi kumachitika mozungulira ndipo kumakhala ngati chisa. Tsopano amphaka amagona pamipando yofunda ndi zofunda, koma sizinali choncho nthawi zonse, sanali panyumba nthawi zonse. Nthawi zambiri amagona paudzu, pomwe nyama zimayenera kuponda kuti zitheke bwino.
Mapeto amodzi atha kupangidwa, kusuntha kwamphaka koteroko mwachilengedwe.
