Mwinanso anthu omwe ali ndi mphaka kapena mphaka kunyumba posakhalitsa amadzifunsa ngati nyamazi zinali zophunzitsidwa. Zofolerera zimakhala chifukwa cha machitidwe awo osakhazikika komanso omvera, kapena, kutsatira zolinga zamalonda, kuti apange sewero lowala lokhala ndi ziwonetsero zamasewera ndi ziweto zaubweya. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zosiyanasiyana.
Kuphunzitsa mphaka: kodi ndizotheka?
Mosasamala zolinga, yankho ndilamodzi - amphaka ndi othandiza pakuphunzitsidwa. Koma kuphunzitsa ziweto zanu zaubweya ndichinthu chosiyana kwambiri ndi kuphunzitsa galu. Ndi amphaka, zonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Ndipo musaganize mopupuluma kuti chifukwa chake ndi luntha lawo lofooka. Chilichonse chobisika m'chilengedwe cha feline zovuta chilengedwe. Pomwe agalu amakhala amtundu wa ziweto, chidwi chomvera chimayikidwa mwa iwo mwachilengedwe, amphaka ndi nyama zokonda ufulu ndipo savomereza kukakamizidwa, zoletsa komanso kulamula aliyense wokhala ndi korona. Makhalidwe amenewa amatha kuwerengedwa mwaluso, mwachitsanzo, ndi A.S. Pushkin "ndipo mphaka wa asayansi amapitilizabe kuzungulira ndi unyolo."
Ngati amphaka ali odziyimira pawokha, ndiye mungathane nawo bwanji? Ingonyamulani chiwerengerocho ndi kuchenjerera nyamayo: njira yophunzitsira iyenera kuwoneka ngati mphaka mmbuyo. Ndiye kuti, chinyama chiyenera kukhala ndi ufulu komanso kusewera, mwanjira ina, muyenera kupereka zonse ngati kuti ndi amene amakuphunzitsani, osati inu. Ndipo ndizosavuta kuyamba kuphunzitsa amphaka kuyambira ali mwana.
Momwe mungayambire kuphunzitsa mphaka?
Lamulo loyamba komanso lalikulu kuti bizineziyi ichitike ndikudalira kwathunthu. Pokhapokha zitatha kukhulupirirana komanso kukhala mabwenzi apamtima, zotsatira zake zingapezeke. Nyamayo sayenera, mulimonsemo, ikuwopeni, muyenera kudziwa bwino wina ndi mnzake. Kwa mphaka, izi siziyenera kukhala zokhudzana ndi kupsinjika. Sankhani nthawi yoyenera yophunzitsidwa. Ngati mumadziwa bwino chiweto chanu, ndiye kuti mosakayikira mudzazindikira maola ake "osangalala" akafuna chidwi, masewera, chikondi. Samalani mkhalidwe wa mphaka: sayenera kukhala wotopa kapena kugona, atapanikizika kapena kukhala wotanganidwa ndi bizinesi yake, mwachitsanzo, ngati amatsuka kapena kudya. Ganizirani nokha kumvetsetsa kotani komwe mwiniwakeyo angadalire ngati chiweto chachotsedwa pa chinthu chofunikira, makamaka pakudya chakudya.
Chifukwa chake mwapeza mphindi yabwino. Kisa ali mumkhalidwe wosangalatsa, wosewera. Musathamangire kuti mutenge nthawi yomweyo mphete, ndowe ndi zina. Ganizirani mfundo yofunika: maphunziro amphaka amachokera pakuwona, ndiye kuti, kuzindikira maluso a munthu winawake. Onetsetsani. Kodi chiweto chanu chikudumpha mopitirira muyeso? Mwina ali ndi kudumpha kopitilira muyeso? Mwina ali ndi mphatso yothamangitsa mipira? Kapena pali chilakolako chakuthengo chokoka zinthu m'mano mwako kupita kumalo? Ngati mumayang'anitsitsa, komanso kutenga nawo mbali pamasewerawa, mutha kudziwa luso la chiweto chanu. Ndipo, pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro pang'ono, lingalirani zanzeru zingapo za chiwerengerocho. Kapena onani zomwe ziyenera kutsindika kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zomwe mukufuna ndikuchita ndikumvera kwa nyamayo.
Osatopa ndikumuyamika "wojambula waubweya" ndikulipira mphotho ya ntchito yoyenera. Izi zokha ziyenera kuchitidwa pamphindi womwewo, kuti nyamayo idziwe bwino zomwe idalandila kapena kukonda.
Malangizo ochepa othandiza
Tiyeni tiwone zigawo zingapo. Mwachitsanzo, kuti muphunzitse lamulo loti muyime, muyenera kugwira nthawi yomwe nyama ikupita kwinakwake ndikuletsa mwaulemu njira yake ndi chikhatho chanu kutsogolo kwa mphuno ndi mawu oti "imani". Ngati mphaka waima, yikani ndi kumuchiritsa ngati chokoma.
Kuti muphunzitse lamulo loti mukhale, ndikofunikira kudikirira kuti nyamayo izikhala pansi mwaufulu wake komanso pamphindi yomweyo nenani kuti "khalani", ndikulimbikitsani nthawi yomweyo. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti kosha isafikire pazakudya zabwinozo ndipo siyiyimirira, ndikuti njira yomwe ikuchitika pakati pa kuchitapo kanthu ndikulimbikitsanso isapitirire, popeza kumvetsetsa zomwe mphothoyo idapangidwira kwatayika. Pambuyo pake, kuti muwone ngati lamuloli lakhazikika pokumbukira nyamayo, mutabwereza kubwereza, dikirani mpaka nyama ili chilili, musakhale otanganidwa kapena osokonezeka, ndipo podutsa, nenani "khalani" ndi mawu odekha. Ngati mphaka amakhala pansi, chonde ndi mphatso kapena chikondi, ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti si nthawi, bwerezani zolimbitsa thupi.
Kuphunzitsa kulumpha mphete, kuyambira pansi mpaka chopondapo, ndichinthu chophweka kwambiri. Gwiritsani ntchito kusewera kwa mphalapala, ingokopani chiweto chanu kuti chizilumpha, mwachitsanzo, ndi nthenga yowala: tsitsimutsani malingaliro anu osaka nyama. Ndipo, zowonadi, mutatha kukhazikitsa lamulo moyenera - chitani.
Muthanso kuphunzira nyama monga "kwa ine", "kubweretsa", "malo" ndi ena ambiri. Mwinanso, kuwakhazikitsa, ndi inu omwe mungapeze china choyambirira.
Mulimonsemo, musataye mtima ngati zotsatira zokhutiritsa sizikuwoneka nthawi yomweyo. Khalani oleza mtima ndi ulemu kwa munthu wamtunduwu ndikuweta. Chofunika kwambiri panthawiyi ndikulola kuti nyamayo ikumbukire dongosolo la zochita ndi cholinga chawo. Chilichonse chiyenera kuchitidwa munthawi yake ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mukutamanda, kusita ndi kudyetsa kuti mukwaniritse bwino lamulo. Simungathe kuchita zonse mwakamodzi kuchokera pamndandanda pamwambapa wa mphotho.
Zabwino zonse pazochita zanu! Chikondi, tamandani chiweto chanu ndikukhala olimbikira, ndiye kuti mudzachita bwino!
